JW Comments

    In Song of Solomon 4:1 it teaches me to **value internal qualities and modesty**. The shepherd praises the Shulammite's eyes that are "**behind your veil**" and her hair that flows simply. This reminds me that, in Jehovah's eyes, true beauty comes from a "**quiet and mild spirit**" (1 Peter 3:3, 4) and **modesty** in our way of dressing and acting. This encourages me to focus my efforts on cultivating the heart.  

    In Song of Solomon 4:7 the declaration is important: "**You are absolutely beautiful, my darling; there is no defect in you**." Although the Shulammite was imperfect, the love of her beloved shepherd made her look perfect in his eyes. This makes me reflect on the **immense love of Jehovah and his Son, Jesus**, who look at us with love, forgive our defects, and consider us precious despite our faults. This motivates me to be grateful and to respond to that love with my obedience.  

    In Song of Solomon 4:12 I learn a valuable lesson about **fidelity and chastity**. The young woman is described as a "**garden that is locked up, a sealed spring**." This powerful image teaches me that the deepest and most personal affection and intimacy must be **exclusive (locked or sealed) for the person to whom we are married**. This helps me to protect my thoughts and my heart from the world's immoral influence.  

    In Song of Solomon 4:3 it teaches me that my words must be **charming and pleasant** like a "**scarlet red thread**" and sweet lips. This benefits my life by reminding me that the way I speak to my spouse, my children, and my brothers must always be with **kindness, patience, and a mild tone**. Gentle communication is essential for peace in the home and in the congregation.  

    In Song of Solomon 4:9 the shepherd's expression is important: "**You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride, with just one glance of those eyes of yours**." This shows us the **power of small gestures of affection and attention**. This benefits me by reminding me that demonstrations of love do not have to be grand or expensive, but **sincere**. A simple detail, a word of encouragement, or a kind look can strengthen a relationship profoundly.  

    In Song of Solomon 4:13 and 14 I learn that the Shulammite is like a garden full of the "**choicest fruits**" and "**delicate perfumes**." This symbolizes that she has **cultivated excellent spiritual qualities**. I can use this example to help others focus on cultivating the "**fruitage of the spirit**" (Galatians 5:22, 23): love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, faith, mildness, and self-control. This will allow them to be, like the garden, a **source of refreshment and good fragrance** to Jehovah and to the congregation.