JW Comments

    In Song of Solomon 3:1-4 I learn the importance of **diligent searching** when we value something deeply. The Shulammite searched for her beloved "**during the nights**," got up, went through the city, and did not rest until she found him and made sure he was safe in her mother's house. This teaches me that if at any point I feel I have lost Jehovah's joy or guidance (the "man I love"), I must **actively strive**: pray fervently, study the Bible, and seek the counsel and help of the elders, without giving up until I "**hold on to him**."  

    In Song of Solomon 3:3 it teaches me to **recognize and value the spiritual help** offered to me. The Shulammite asks the "**watchmen**" about her beloved. This reminds me that, in the congregation, the elders and other mature brothers are like "**watchmen**" who help us stay on the right path and give us biblical guidance. It is important that I accept and follow the **loving advice** they give me, as they direct me toward my Beloved, Jehovah God.  

    In Song of Solomon 3:4 the phrase "**I held on to him and would not let him go**" is important. This shows me the need to be **firm and resolute in our faith**. Once we find the accurate knowledge of the truth and establish a relationship with Jehovah, we must not let go of it. This encourages me to **value my relationship with God as the most precious thing** and to fight to keep it strong day by day.  

    In Song of Solomon 3:5 it is vital that the Shulammite repeats the **oath not to force or provoke love**. This reminds us, again, of the need for **patience and waiting on Jehovah** in all aspects of life, whether for a marriage, a change in circumstances, or the fulfillment of a biblical promise. This benefits my life by **reducing anxiety and frustration**, and by teaching me that the most valuable things develop in God's time.  

    In Song of Solomon 3:6-11 I learn to reflect on the **contrast between worldly splendor and the simplicity of faithful love**. Solomon's royal couch, adorned with silver, gold, and purple wool, surrounded by powerful warriors, is described in great detail and richness. This helps me **keep my perspective clear**: while the world values wealth and ostentation (Solomon's couch), I must value **simplicity, loyalty, and sincere affection** (the Shulammite's love for her shepherd). This protects my heart from greed and materialism.  

    In Song of Solomon 3:1-4 it teaches me that, when **helping others who are going through times of discouragement or trial**, I must be like the Shulammite: **persevering and willing to search**. If a brother has drifted away or is weak, we should not sit around waiting, but rather **get up, search for them with love, and help them find their way back to spiritual safety**, bringing comfort and encouragement to their "house" (their heart).